tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post1680501531200298268..comments2024-02-10T18:19:36.406-08:00Comments on Newspaper Rock: Irene Bedard abusedRobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01478763837213733775noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-82855769707345101082016-06-29T14:40:17.002-07:002016-06-29T14:40:17.002-07:00From what I have read in the past from other comme...From what I have read in the past from other comments on articles regarding irene's abuse. Deni's mother has made a lot of of the same comments that is posted on here. I believe that "anonymous" person talking trash about irene is Deni's mother, again defending her abusive piece of trash son, who she didn't raise her son to respect women. Smh. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15992575956403079113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-55666207344342949442012-08-24T00:09:24.862-07:002012-08-24T00:09:24.862-07:00It's obvious that "Anonymous" is eit...It's obvious that "Anonymous" is either her ex-husband or someone close to him. He is also a misogynistic troll. There is no way this creep is a mental health professional.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-79341307575862048852011-03-04T22:54:32.219-08:002011-03-04T22:54:32.219-08:00I have chatted with Irene over the years at Pow Wo...I have chatted with Irene over the years at Pow Wows, last couple of years at the CSULB Pow Wow. She is a kind and gentle person, sincere in everyway. I believe her claims, and anyone who knows her would agree. She needs our prayers and support now - regardless of what side of the story you wish to believe.Red Feather Lifehttp://www.mahipyaska.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-42494503794586382522010-11-28T18:57:05.372-08:002010-11-28T18:57:05.372-08:00How can an anonymous therapist have so much detail...How can an anonymous therapist have so much detailed information about Irene. Any professional therapist wouldn't be discussing these details. I say, Deni is PUNK!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-35989394226767891912010-11-28T18:55:05.140-08:002010-11-28T18:55:05.140-08:00How much abuse does a woman have to put with? This...How much abuse does a woman have to put with? This anonymous guy is like a serial rapist who just wants to rape Irene of what little dignity she has left. I say, Deni, MAN UP, you coward!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-478013419799536482010-11-24T07:18:08.937-08:002010-11-24T07:18:08.937-08:00It does seem rather suspicious with all the commen...It does seem rather suspicious with all the comments posted by "anonymous" using words and phrases like "I remember" and "she had alot of problems before she met him" sounds too close to the circle than just being "anonymous".<br /><br />Whether its Irene Bedard or any woman, child, elderly, no one should tolerate abuse, even if its verbal, emotional and stress related.<br /><br />I also agree that only victims can end abuse and many times they are do not see clearly options right in front of them.<br /><br />I hope Ms Bedard survives her ordeal with less fanfare and scandal than needed and she be allowed to heal in a private and healthy environment.<br /><br />As for the money issue, I see nothing wrong with HER asking for help, but I have seen and know of people that profit from someone elses' suffering, family included.Burtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-65389634021007701252010-11-24T05:25:57.509-08:002010-11-24T05:25:57.509-08:00if the husband is the anonymous....i believe it......if the husband is the anonymous....i believe it...hes totally glamorizing and putting pity on the husband..i believe that she was a victim of abuse..he can spout his nonsense all he wants.....loser....and disney should portray women in a real light..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-81068665317621830732010-11-24T04:19:25.281-08:002010-11-24T04:19:25.281-08:00I spent only one brief paragraph talking about Dis...I spent only one brief paragraph talking about Disney, Burt. Other people have made it a subject of discussion, not me.<br /><br />I linked to the Native Spirit Public Relations posting, Anonymous #5. How about if we say organizations are begging for money on Bedard's behalf and she's letting them do so? If you think that's different from Bedard herself begging for money, okay.<br /><br />For more eyewitness testimony about Bedard's abuse, see <a href="http://newspaperrock.bluecorncomics.com/2010/11/gray-wolf-on-irene-bedard.html" rel="nofollow">Gray Wolf on Irene Bedard</a>. <br /><br />Incidentally, Gray Wolf says Anonymous #3 in this thread is none other than Deni Wilson, Bedard's allegedly abusive husband. Is that true, buddy? Why don't you identify yourself so we can determine if your claim has any credibility? Are you afraid we'll humiliate you the way you humiliated Irene?Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01478763837213733775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-55507644626596029042010-11-23T20:11:05.192-08:002010-11-23T20:11:05.192-08:00Since Irene has gone public about her abuse, and h...Since Irene has gone public about her abuse, and her personal situation is worsening because the court ordered her back to Ohio, Disney could help her with the legal battles. I wouldn't say Disney is accountable for her abuse (by objectifying women as princesses), but in light of her achievement with Disney, any support they give to her would be good PR for them, and really make a difference in Irene's life.<br /><br />I will pray for her, as I hope you will too. Spousal Abusers should be prosecuted to the fullest extent and made to attend victim classes for at least 1 year.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12302306131305519629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-30143375395293754812010-11-23T13:06:25.500-08:002010-11-23T13:06:25.500-08:00I am confused here Rob, are we talking about domes...I am confused here Rob, are we talking about domestic abuse or Disney?Burtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-19812422640560357272010-11-23T10:27:08.255-08:002010-11-23T10:27:08.255-08:00"No doctor would miss signs of physical abuse..."No doctor would miss signs of physical abuse and yet notice that something is wrong enough to order cancer screening tests."<br /><br />Who said anything about cancer?<br /><br />I don't see anything in the public filings about cancer.<br /><br /><br /><br />"I've seen this kind of behavior time and time again in my counseling practice. Women need to stop falsely accusing men of abuse simply because they know it will help them achieve their selfish desires."<br /><br /><br />No trained counselor, therapist or anyone else in the medical field would divulge personal information of this type (Cancer) nor would they say such a blatantly sexist statement. <br /><br />The previous poster, if they are a mental heath professional, needs to lose their license.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-39274481779581861652010-11-23T09:40:12.167-08:002010-11-23T09:40:12.167-08:00No doctor would miss signs of physical abuse and y...No doctor would miss signs of physical abuse and yet notice that something is wrong enough to order cancer screening tests. This story is a load of hooey. More than likely, this "abusive" husband was just a hard working guy who wanted to be treated like a human being when his wife up and decided to leave him... He didn't give into her demands and so she created this twisted tale of abuse.<br /><br />I've seen this kind of behavior time and time again in my counseling practice. Women need to stop falsely accusing men of abuse simply because they know it will help them achieve their selfish desires.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-26419155877351525652010-11-23T01:34:51.906-08:002010-11-23T01:34:51.906-08:00"Note that I didn't post anything about B..."Note that I didn't post anything about Bedard's appeal for money. Regardless of her situation, I'm not sure she should be begging the public for help. "<br /><br />First, I would like to thank you for posting this on your blog.<br /><br />Second, Irene is not begging the public for help. Red Crystal Gala, a non-profit dedicated to eradicating domestic violence in Native American communities, started collecting donation on her behalf with the commitment of contributing to her legal defense and/or donating the proceeds to domestic violence centers in and around Indian country in her name. <br /><br />Here is another post.<br />https://www.nativespiritpublicrelations.com/Support_Irene_Bedard.html<br /><br />They want to move the case back to Alaska where the full evidence in the case can see the light of day. Evidently, having a Alaskan court ruled Domestic Violence conviction against you, such as the case with the soon to be ex-husband, does not have legal standing in Ohio.<br /><br />Despite the Domestic Violence and the fact Bedard filed for divorce in the state of Alaska first, the Ohio courts forced Bedard to leave her full time job in Alaska by ordering her to physically attend divorce proceedings in Ohio or face losing permanent custody of her child.<br /><br />This order also has denied her the ability to shoot a movie on location in Alaska as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-84203568172336799562010-11-23T00:51:56.261-08:002010-11-23T00:51:56.261-08:00A Facebook discussion of my Disney comments:
Jenn...A Facebook discussion of my Disney comments:<br /><br />Jennifer: I'm not a fan of Disney, either. But the dynamics of domestic violence are more complex than what you are suggesting here and in your warrior/princess post. A "strong" woman who spends a lifetime identifying with the female "warrior" prototype that you talked about can still fall victim to domestic violence, without even seeing it coming. For many, it's a cumulative process of the tearing down and wearing down of the woman's identity--not a result of media images or stereotypes having affected them in the first place.<br /><br />Renee: Interesting suggestion, Rob, have you approached Disney with it? I do believe that all communities should help, not just major corporations.<br /><br />Rob: A "strong" woman who identifies with the female "warrior" archetype is still a member of a society that objectifies women as princesses and sex objects. Her personal choices don't necessarily affect what the people around her believe.<br /><br />I agree it's more complex than the posting indicates...which is why I said one could write a book on the subject. I also agree it's a cumulative effect with multiple causes beyond what I described. But I stand by my claim that this princess objectification is part of the problem.<br /><br />I thought of the idea about a minute before I posted it, Renee, so no. I know it isn't Disney's responsibility...that everyone must combat the problem. My point is that Disney could counteract its historically sexist treatment of female characters with a goodwill gesture like this. It would be a PR coup for them.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01478763837213733775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-30914434023315020862010-11-23T00:36:04.722-08:002010-11-23T00:36:04.722-08:00I hesitated a couple of days before posting this i...I hesitated a couple of days before posting this item. But a couple of people said they'd heard about the abuse long before the story broke. With that confirmation in mind, I went with it.<br /><br />The posting refers to court filings that presumably have created a paper trail of public records. Are you saying none of these court filings exist, Anonymous? Whatever your "fact" is, feel free to share it with us. Your claim that Bedard is lying isn't worth much until you prove it.<br /><br />Note that I didn't post anything about Bedard's appeal for money. Regardless of her situation, I'm not sure she should be begging the public for help. I'd suggest she contact government agencies, private charities, or benefactors such as Disney first.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01478763837213733775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-41800638116671416282010-11-23T00:16:33.959-08:002010-11-23T00:16:33.959-08:00What exactly did Disney do? It promoted the idea ...What exactly did Disney do? It promoted the idea of women as second-class citizens with half a century of popular entertainment products, that's what. For more on the subject, see <a href="http://www.bluecorncomics.com/diswomen.htm" rel="nofollow">"Marriage or Bust" for Disney's Women</a>.<br /><br />It's similar to what Disney did to Indians with <a href="http://www.bluecorncomics.com/tigerlil.htm" rel="nofollow"><i>Peter Pan</i></a>, the <a href="http://www.bluecorncomics.com/disneyld.htm" rel="nofollow">burning log cabin</a>, <a href="http://www.bluecorncomics.com/pocahont.htm" rel="nofollow"><i>Pocahontas</i></a>, <a href="http://www.bluecorncomics.com/2007/10/review-of-emperors-new-school.html" rel="nofollow"><i>The Emperor's New School</i></a>, etc. And to other minorities with <i>Fantasia</i>, <i>Song of the South</i>, the jungle boat ride, <i>Aladdin</i>, etc. If you're going to argue that pop culture has no influence on people's beliefs and attitudes, you're going to lose. I have hundreds of postings proving you wrong.Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01478763837213733775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-53086681857417913262010-11-22T22:23:45.571-08:002010-11-22T22:23:45.571-08:00"I know for a fact that "domestic and ph..."I know for a fact that "domestic and physical abuse" is a lie that is being told to slander her soon to be ex-husband."<br /><br />I have witness the abuse first hand as well as dozens of other people. Dozens of witnesses have written their testimonies. Some day, Irene's soon to be ex will have to answer to a higher power.<br /><br />Facts don't cease to exist because they are ignored.<br /><br />Here is one such testimony. (not mine)<br /><br />http://www.congress.org/congressorg/bio/userletter/?letter_id=6115622141&content_dir=politicsolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-12171190276459547692010-11-22T19:25:08.846-08:002010-11-22T19:25:08.846-08:00I know for a fact that "domestic and physical...I know for a fact that "domestic and physical abuse" is a lie that is being told to slander her soon to be ex-husband. This lie is being told in order to skew public opinion in her favor in hopes of getting a better result from the fight for custody. <br /><br />I am horrified this slanderous and horrible misrepresentation of the situation. In order to fleece unknowing kind hearted people of their money.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-54388173065278861582010-11-22T19:09:42.102-08:002010-11-22T19:09:42.102-08:00I remember that through various drug and alcohol a...I remember that through various drug and alcohol abuse episodes, her husband was the one who stood by her. Now that there is a new man in her life, suddenly she is abused? I'm not sure I trust her. I've personally heard her blame him for not giving her messages that I know she got but didn't feel like answering. Also, she had a lot of problems before she ever met him. But it sure makes a good dramatic tale.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-59659089906294960112010-11-22T17:43:24.447-08:002010-11-22T17:43:24.447-08:00"The whole Disney rhetoric is baseless and un..."The whole Disney rhetoric is baseless and unproductive"<br /><br />True. Chase alluded to nonexistent conspiracies.dmarkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269773990064736457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-14267329724955517022010-11-22T14:33:30.115-08:002010-11-22T14:33:30.115-08:00I got to meet Irene Bedard just a year ago at a po...I got to meet Irene Bedard just a year ago at a pow-wow and she is a sweet and frail woman. How in the heck does the males in her family, brothers, cousins, uncles and male friends tolerate this?<br /><br />Everyone knows the laws towards domestic abuse of women and children are toothless and not enforced. This guy better watch out now that the word is out. If I come across him, I don't care about laws or jail. Men that abuse people only understand one language, and that is pain.<br /><br />Physical abuse and violence in marriages gets passed on through the children. When children become adults they only know one way of solving problems under stress or pressures and that is violence.<br /><br />I should know. I am a survivor of abuse myself and saw alot of violence in the home. Since my stepdad was a cop, he pulled out guns and knives and got away with it.<br /><br />I hope she leaves this man and moves on with her life, and I hope someone gets a hold of this man.<br /><br />The whole Disney rhetoric is baseless and unproductive. Abuse begins and should end in the home with family, friends, courts and communities that are either privy to such abuse and allow it to continue or put a stop to it before victims are maimed or dead.<br /><br />Then it is too late to talk, grandstand and march for the dead!Burtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-75886871842307515592010-11-22T09:36:58.246-08:002010-11-22T09:36:58.246-08:00by objectifying women, the corporate media, includ...by objectifying women, the corporate media, including disney, has made it easier for the larger population (male and female) to view women as objects (less than human-male)which makes it easier on the conscience for males to abuse their "objects". disney probably has never considered this, nobody does, in this world we turn a profit, above all else -we need continuing consumption, and the mass of people, being ill informed, are bound to consume whatever is fed to them; informer and the informed being ill informed. take a look at history, politics, socio-econ stats, fashion, etc. and its easy to see that males physically and mentally subverted female sovereignty/self esteem. maybe that person is arguing that disney, a "complicit" corporation, should do something to raise awareness about its practices, and it may do so, if it could turn a profit as well.Chase IEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29769707.post-46290556246776963792010-11-22T08:44:43.033-08:002010-11-22T08:44:43.033-08:00"Here's a thought: Since Disney is so clo..."Here's a thought: Since Disney is so closely associated with objectifying women as princesses, it could help Irene Bedard and other victims of domestic abuse. How about it, Disney? Care to help one of your "princesses" and undo some of the damage you've done?"<br /><br />and what exactly did Disney do to cause this abuse?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com